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We have told you before that thoughts have powers.
Everything you focus on or think about too much converts energy which becomes a creating energy (attraction)
This also applies to all types of relationships.
Firstly, everything is a mirror. How you think and feel about, people will come across who mirroring you in a positive or negative form.
If you think you are not good enough, people will also come across your path and treat you that way.
That’s why it is so important to get the relationship with yourself optimally, you should be happy that you are alive, that you appreciate yourself for who you are, for what you have achieved already.
So if you have an optimal relationship with yourself (the attraction in an optimal relationship with yourself also attracts an equivalent person) you cannot end up in love relationships that keep breaking down or worse, stay in a relationship where you no longer have a connection with each other. You stay together out of fear, kids, habituation, sexual or financial issues, oh yes and want to destroy each other emotionally and if 1 of the 2 is mentally stronger the other remains dependent on the love and only gets fed crumbs.
Often it is the case that in the beginning of a relationship, people are in a joyful energy of falling in love, but after a while suddenly 1 of the 2 falls back into its old rhythm then most of the time 1 persons behaves more dependent on the hope that the relationship will get more attention like it was before. But if one continues to hope and the other just continues to live as he is used to and there is no conversation on an emotional level, you cannot converge on a correct frequency.
If you are focused on sex or your emotion is linked that love is sex, you also get a man or woman who is also focused on that and who cannot connect emotionally because that is the lowest chakra. Sex is delicious and enjoyable, but sex is not the basis for a serious relationship. The basis is connection on several levels and enjoying each other in every way. Loving each other in positivity and allowing each other the best to manifest a fantastic life together in every way helping each other in the fears of life to come out stronger together …
Are you a human being who has received too many love rejections, you think you are not good enough.
You think this is your reality because you are experiencing it over and over again. Are you also been rejected in the childhood by a parent? (does not always have to be the case that you have been rejected by a parent, may also be first boyfriend or girlfriend by family members, teachers)
But why do you think you get these rejections?
You attract lovers who are emotional not available.
Because you are therefore emotionally dependent on the opinion / love of the other with which you identify yourself and keep making the same mistakes every time in a different guise because you think it is your reality.
But if your reality is, I am the best person there is, in a unique way and am loved and appreciated in any shape I wish emotionally, sexually, my heart is open to love, warmth and connection I am a family person and with this i wish a mutual love relationship then you will get the love relationship you desire. It is as simple as it sounds.
You attract this love relationship because you are going to select what really suits you.
If you come into temptation with a partner in which you notice that you feel down or not appreciated, talk about it, if that person is also open to changes then you can connect and grow emotionally, if not let go of that person, you become tempted by the old pattern (karma) it’s because you think your reality is your reality, but it is not, it is just your view conditioning. You are in a tunnel vision through sadness and disappointment you have experienced, perhaps already from childhood on …
So if your karma is so stubborn that you keep thinking that your reality is your REAL reality, but you still have to make a breakthrough. Then constantly tell yourself your wishes (affirmations) to have a better life. Because what you see as your reality is an old fear that has been accumulated by belief beliefs (conditioning) in which you have come to believe. And now it is time to reprogram everything and start believing and seeing your life in happiness.
We wish you the most delicious and delightful relationship ever with yourself and with others.